Life is not a bed of roses...
My first post for the new year of 2007, but it's not something that will incite the release of endorphins, because we were struck with a bad news. It really came as a shock, a bad shock admist the otherwise joyous atmosphere of birthday celebrations of the 21 year olds.
Most of us weren't aware of her dad's condition, nor did she tell us anything. For a moment, I thought my eyes and brain were playing tricks on me, I had to read that one-sentence sms thrice before I was convinced of the reality. I'm quite lost as to what I can do for our friend, the only thing that I can think of, is to be ready to be by her side anytime she needs us. I guess a tight and warm hug would give her some strength to move on too. Informing the rest of our classmates is the next only little thing we could do. I'm not good with such situations, but if crying with them or offering my shoulders help, I'll be more than willing to oblige.
It is a fact that life is unpredictable, generally. No one knows what will actually happen the next second. Things might just refuse to go the way you plan. I think I'm learning more and more to be content with life as it is. Like the teaching I've learnt from Buddhism, one should learn how to 'xi fu' (appreciate and thank every little goodness in life - my interpretation). I think it should apply to everyone as this act of acknowledging and being grateful for every little goodness one receives, is something universal and regardless of religion and whatever categorizes mankind. I'm thankful for everything I have now; my family (including relatives and my two pet tortoises), my friends, everyone playing a meaningful part in my life, everything that makes life possibly positive.
Well...this sounds cliche, but like everyone says, 'life has to go on." We just have to learn to be stronger every time a wave hits us, isn't it? But while talking about it is easy, taking actions is another.
When one pillar falls, the rest will share the weight and bear the load together. That's the way it should be working. So let it start working, now.
It is a fact that life is unpredictable, generally. No one knows what will actually happen the next second. Things might just refuse to go the way you plan. I think I'm learning more and more to be content with life as it is. Like the teaching I've learnt from Buddhism, one should learn how to 'xi fu' (appreciate and thank every little goodness in life - my interpretation). I think it should apply to everyone as this act of acknowledging and being grateful for every little goodness one receives, is something universal and regardless of religion and whatever categorizes mankind. I'm thankful for everything I have now; my family (including relatives and my two pet tortoises), my friends, everyone playing a meaningful part in my life, everything that makes life possibly positive.
Well...this sounds cliche, but like everyone says, 'life has to go on." We just have to learn to be stronger every time a wave hits us, isn't it? But while talking about it is easy, taking actions is another.
When one pillar falls, the rest will share the weight and bear the load together. That's the way it should be working. So let it start working, now.
[ Be brave, girl! I know you will try your best to, but let us be your pillars if you feel weak, alright? Don't worry, we won't give way. You know your dad loves you deep within, no right-minded parents with feelings have no love for their children. Likewise for your brothers, whether elder or younger; the kinship you share has driven love, care, and concern to the deepest roots, so much so that it isn't communicated verbally nor non-verbally, because it is to be felt, with the heart. Although the love is unspoken, I'm sure you know about it. ]
My deepest condolences, Lipeng. Your father will be looking after you and your family from above, free from physical pains. You'll promise to be strong, will you? You know we all love you, dear! -Hugs-
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